ASSALAMUALIKUM WA RAHMAT ULLAHI WA BARKATUHU

MAI SHEHAR E HYDERABAD SE TALLUQ RAKHTI HU..AAJ MERA SAWAL AUR EK SACH AAP SABHI SE HAI JO APNE LADKE AUR LADKIO KE RISHTE ACHE GHARANE ME KARWANA CHAHTE HAI.. KUCH WAQT DEKAR ISKO PADHE AUR SAMJHE..

Ache gharane me toh sabhi apne ladke ladkio ke rishte jodna chahte hai, toh beech me ye shartain kyun ajati hai ke ladki slim hi honi chahye gori hi honi chahye lambi hai toh bohot lambi hai aur kam qad ki hai toh  qad kam? ladki ka background uska akhlaq dekha jata hai na ki uski personality. aur dusra sawal aur sach dusri shadi wale ladkon ke liye,JAB AAPKA LADKA SHADI SHUDDA HAI AUR DUSRA NIKAH KARNA CHAHTA HAI TOH SIRF AUR SIRF KUNWARI LADKI HI KYUN? BHAISAHAB KHUD TOH SHADI SHUDA HAI /TALAAQ SHUDA HAI AUR UMR SE KHAREEB 33,35 ,40 KE YA 40 SE ZYADA HAI AUR LADKI CHAHTE HAI KUNWARI WAH AUR WOH BHI KAM UMR,, AUR 2ND MARRIAGE KARRAHE HAI TOH BHI SHARTAIN KE LADKI SLIM HO WAGERA WAGERA.. UFF SHARTON KI TOH KOI LIMIT HI NAHI..AUR  KUCH JANAB APNI PEHLI BIWI RAKHTE HUE BHI DUSRI SHADI KARNA CHAHTE , KE ISLAM SE TOH HAME 4 SHADI KARNE KI IJAZAT HAI. CHALO MAAN LETE HAI KE KOI AULAD NA HONE KI SURAT ME DUSRA NIKAH KARNA CHAHTE HAI TOH KOI AAJ KAL LADKIO KE NIKAH JO NAHI HORAHE HAI UN WAJAH SE YE NAIK KAAM KARNA CHAHTE, is majburi ko samajha jayega, laikin usme bhi shart.. LADKI ME KUCH NA KUCH AYEB NIKAL HI JATE HAI INKI MEHARBANI SE.EK NAZAR APNE LADKE PAR BHI DEKH LE APNI LADKIO PAR BHI DEKHLE YE NA HO KE KAL KE DIN AAP KE LADKE LADKIO PAR BHI KOI AYEB NIKALE,

YE SIRF LADKO KE HI SHARTAIN NAHI HAI LADKI WALON KA BHI KUCH YAHI HAAL HAI,LADKON ME BHI KUCH NA KUCH AYEB NIKAL HI LETE HAI...MAINE DEKHA HAI KAYI AKHBAR KE ISHTEHAAR ME LADKI WALE CHAHTE HAI LADKA WELL SETTLED PADHA LIKHA HO AUR,SAB ABROAD ME APNI LADKI DENE TAYYAR HOTE HAI LAIKIN DISTRICTS ME DENE KE LIYE PICHE HAT TE HAI? KYUN? DISTRICTS ME KYA SAB GHAREEB HAI? YA ISLAM SE DUR HAI? DUBAI SAUDI AMERICA JAISE PAAS ME HI HAI AUR MAHBUBNAGAR SHADNAGAR MEDAK 2 DIN KA RASTA HAI?? YA IN JAGAH PE GRAHSTI NAHI HOTI?LADKE WALON KA YE HAI KE GRADUATE  MUST,  PEHLE SUNTE THE KE LADKI ZYADA PADHI LIKhI NA HO, AB LADKIO KO ITNA PADHARAHE HAI KE DEGREE TOH ZARURI HAI? KYU KYA APLOG LADKI SE JOB KARWANA CHAHTE HAI? CHULHA HANDI LADKE KO DENGE?

Kya islam me yahi sab sikhaya gaya hai? kya islam me ye kaha gaya hai ke  admi ke ya aurat ke tallaq aur khula ke baad woh usi se shadi kare jo sirf aur sirf kunwara ya kunwari ho? ya usi se shadi kare jo slim hi ho ya gori hi ho?.

           NIKAH KO ASAN BANANE KA MATLAB SIRF KAM KHARCH TAQAREEBAIN HI NAHI HOTE, JODI BANANE WALA SIWAYE ALLAH KE KOI NAHI HAI, AUR MASHA ALLAH SE HUM SAB ISS  BAAT KO SAMAJHTE HAI, TOH PHIR KYUN HAZARON LADKE LADKIA TALASH KARKE APNE AAPKO THAKA RAHE HAI? SHAADI DEENDAR GHARANE ME KARE, AUR AGAR WOH DEENDAR NAHI HAI TOH UNHE DEENDAR BAANAYE,MUJHE KOI EK COMMENT KARKE BATAYE KE HAMARE QURAN SHAREEF ME AUR HADEES YE LIKHA HO KE LADKA TALAQ SHUDA HAI TOH USKI SHADI SIRF KUNWARI LADKI SE HI HO, YA SLIM GORI LAMBI LADKI SE HI HO? MAAFI CHAHTI HU MERE BADON ME SE KOI YE POST PADHRAHE HO AUR UNHE IS BAAT KA BURA LAGRA HO TOH.

Bas ek baar sonche ke aapke aisa karne se kitne ladke ladkia hai jinke shadion me taqeer horahi ho? jinke shadi ho hi nahi rahi ho aur woh bas ek mazakh banke reh gaye hai?

acha gharana dikheye ache log dekhiye aur agar woh log ache nahi hai toh apni achayi se unhe ache banaiyye. "DON'T MARRY FOR LOOKS MARRY TO SETTLE UP YOUR LIFE MARRY TO GET A CHANCE FOR BECOMMING JANNATI, AND DON'T WAIT FOR A RIGHT PERSON"

PADH CHUKE HAI TOH SAMAJH BHI LIJIYE SAMAJH CHUKE HAI TOH DUSRON KO BHI SAMJHAYE.. ALLAH HUM SAB KO DEEN KE SAHI RASTE PAR CHALNE KI TOUFEEQ ATA FARMAYE AUR NIKAH KA ASLI MATLAB HUM SAB KO SAMJHYAE AMAL KARNE KI TOUFEEQ ATA FARMAYE.

AAMEEN..

JAZAKH ALLAH HU KHAIRA.